Dear Friends
Laptops, tablets, mobile phones are wonderful on a snowy week like this one helping me to keep in touch with the world. Even if you can't make it to your office you can connect to your desk remotely from home and still work. Everywhere you go people are texting, talking, sharing with each other wherever they are. Being and staying in contact is important to us. We are social beings created for community who do not function properly without this connectedness.
In a fairly recent online survey, by Time Out, of eighteen global cities London came out top of one table with some 55% of people saying they feel lonely sometimes. Compare this with Lisbon where the figure was just 10%. Very few, 7%, felt strongly that London was a good place to make new friends and overall it was seen as a difficult place to make social connections. London is a city where people tend to keep themselves to themselves, seldom being prepared to chat to a stranger.
Everywhere you look, there are signs that people are hungering for fellowship, community, and a sense of family. Alcohol commercials don't sell beer, they sell fellowship. No one is ever portrayed drinking alone but always in the context of enjoying each other's company. People long to be connected; we see this need in the inexorable rise of social media, online communities, branding, gangs, self-help groups etc. As Christians we have a natural desire, or should have, to be part of a community with others who are like minded.
There are many analogies for a Christian disconnected from a church: a football player without a team; a soldier without a troop; a trombone player without an orchestra; a sheep without a flock. But the most understandable and biblical picture is that of a child without a family. That family is the church. God does not want his children growing up in isolation from each other, so he created a spiritual family on earth for us. One church leader says, 'A Christian without a church family is an orphan'. Family is the best fit not a special interest group, nor a self-help group or one built on social status.
Do I Really Need the Church? Is a question that people often ask indirectly. Now they don't say that instead they tell me how you don't need to go to church to be a Christian, or why they can't make it to meet with others, or how they are too busy for church. I have taken that to mean that such people do not really see why the church exists and what the church is.
To start with it is not a human invention. The Church is Jesus' idea (Matthew 16:18 Now I say to you that you are Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church, and all the powers of hell will not conquer it). It is made up of all God's people in the world whatever background, gender or age they may be. The Church is God's chosen vehicle to accomplish his purpose in the world; whatever he does will be through all his people, the church.
Being part of a local congregation means being connected to people outside your normal, maybe limited, circle. It entails learning new ways. The Church is made up of a huge variety of different people, of different ages, of different backgrounds, of varying educational standards, from different cultures. We should join a church not to pander to our likes and dislikes but we join a local church expression in order to worship, enjoy fellowship, serve others and share the Gospel.
Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works. And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near. Hebrews 10:24-25
In London we might mean a shift in our attitudes to form more authentic church communities. A shift that dares us to talk to other people who are part of the church family but very different. It can be hard if you have been conditioned by travelling as a commuter in London, moving around with thousands of people but in isolation. Or perhaps like most Londoners your only real friendships are work related. Don't be part of a church and keep yourself isolated from others. If we think meeting up with others is all about the preaching or the music or even the food then we have missed the point.
Love each other with genuine affection and take delight in honouring each other. Never be lazy, but work hard and serve the Lord enthusiastically. Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying. When God's people are in need, be ready to help them. Always be eager to practice hospitality. Romans 12:10-13
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